How You Can Speak To Any Woman, Anytime, Anywhere Effectively.


When we talk about the topics of approaching women, or how to approach women, we always come up with the skill of conversation being part of the skill of how to approach women effectively.

I've always been complimented at my ability to strike up conversation with anybody at any time about any topic - even when there is supposedly "nothing to talk about". It's a skill I have and in this article I will tell you the SIMPLE magic to my success.

The best way to induce a conversation is to ask questions. Too simple? Well, let me show.

What do you ask questions about?

Well, I always just ask questions about anything I want to know. It differs from person to person. But typically if I am meeting someone new I would ask questions like "Do you have brothers and sisters?" "Do you live with your parents?" "Do you have a lot of friends?"

Usually a person speaks for a while when answering and that lends you more data to ask more questions about. Sometimes I will make a remark if it is appropriate or if they ask me a question in reply to my question I just answer their question then ask them another one of my questions.

The challenging times are when people simply give you "yes" and "no" type answers. That doesn't render much to work off of.

When I sense the situation is awkward or the person isn't talking much (like the above "yes" and "no" replies), then I talk about how awkward the situation is. Tell something like "This is embarrassing. I feel so awkward. I don't know what to speak. Do you feel embarrassed too?"

Normally you can get a little discussion going on that topic and relieve a lot of tension just by accepting that you feel awkward and don't know what to say. Then go onto a question like "Ok, let's see what we can speak about. What are your passions? Do you have any pastime activities?"

Another questioning approach is to pay attention to what a person puts their attention on and discuss or ask questions about that. So, for example, if you are in a cafe and the person you are dating isn't talking much, just looking at the menu, you might say "Kind of an enjoyable menu. What appears good to you?" That might spark a conversation about food or restaurants and menus, etc.

This approach is also good for meeting strangers. If you are in a supermarket next to some one attractive who is staring at "lamb chops" you might say: "I see you are excited about the lamb chops. Do you know a perfect way to prepare them, I've always wanted to try them, but really don't know how to prepare them."

Remember also that you are not necessarily going to connect with everyone you meet. So if you try, try, and try to get a decent discussion going and it doesn't take place then this is possibly not the best person for you.

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