When we are referring to the subject of "picking up women." I often be asked what to do to be able to "pick up women", or simply "how to pick up women".

I not long ago got asked the doubt: "Why do women flirt with you and when you flirt back they snub it? It's so puzzling!!!" I thought it was wonderful and important enough to share.

First, women have different qualities. What is being mentioned here is a sort of personality, not all females in general. The personality type that generally does this kind of actions is a little unstable. They are testing the water, but they don't just want to jump in.

The best way to manage this personality type is when you find it is not to respond, not to take the bait so to talk. Let the girl flirt all she likes, let her take the lead. Let her handle how the romance goes. If you don't react, she will get close to you and steepen the gradient progressively. If you react (flirt back) she will usually run off.

Difficulty is, however, people with equal or compatible personalities are likely to hang out together. So quite often you can get the opinion that the whole world is in one direction, when in fact it may be merely a certain percentage of humans who are like that. So if you tend to think ALL women are one way, modify your environment. Go to some other place, meet different people in different environments and perhaps you will notice different personality types and possibly one that is more appropriate for you.

Now having said that, let's observe it from a different perspective. Women in general love flirting for flirting's sake more than men do. Men will flirt just because they are interested in a woman. Girls will flirt to see if they get a response, to check if they are looking good and are attractive, even when they are not fascinated with a man. They will flirt with a man they are only thinking about being friends with.

One solution to get better control of these conditions is to observe all the communication mediums that a woman is applying to communicate - Like oral, emotional, physical, psychological, and sexual communications.

When a girl likes you she will certainly communicate that she likes you through all of the communications channels. When she is only playing around she will give you mixed communications. So when you find a woman flirting with you, but she does not support the flirting by showing you she likes you over ALL the communication channels - don't take the flirtation serious.

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